Monday, March 19, 2012

Who's Right?


Man its ­­another week and its crazy that Hermana is almost done…
      Yesterday we were planning when it hit me that tim is going home way soon…. It was a crazy thought and then it was hitting me that I have about 4 months left….. weird, but since transfers are in about 4 weeks and I will have been in Pembroke for 6 months I think i will have one more area for the last two transfers (3 months) and i will have to leave my Lumbee brothers and sisters L but then il will got to another place and find more brothers and sisters!
       The next few weeks we have a lot going on; this week we have Zone Training, the next we get to go to the Temple (the 5th time) and then I think the week after that we are having a zone Activity day and that’s more than two hours away haha so that will be fun day. So lots of things on the go.

            Last week was a good week. Yesterday we had our investigator  that goes to UNCP come to church, and she really liked it. Speaking of UNCP we had a really interesting lesson the other day…. We were walking around on UNCP campass and talking to people. There were these three girls and as we start talking they started asking us about the funny things like “Mormons have like a hundred wives right?” and the one of: “that guy jo like put his head in a hole and god put knowledge into it right?” And a few new ones for me, haha but we ended up talking for about 30 minutes right there outside and taught  about the restoration and the book of Mormon. When we were in the middle of talking about the book of Mormon this other student walks up and just starts sitting in and so we have to re-tell everything we had been teaching for the last while in a few seconds and then we ended up making another appointment. It was just funny…. Funny people haha

             We also talked with a way anti-Mormon guy and my comp like blow up on him, as I just watched and then at then at the end of the all that there was not so nice feelings between the two and neither were really making any sense. I bore testimony about Jesus Christ, the restoration and the need for a prophet today and then we left with the... well I guess we will have to see who's right at judgment…. (he was another super white Lumbee )  

    So those are the interesting things of this week. It is going good, the weather is being crazy like always, and its still the greatest time ever!

            Thanks for all you do. I hope you have a wonderful week!!
Love you all and say hi to tim for me =)

 ELDER MAUGHAN!!        

Friday, March 16, 2012

You know your Mexican when



Hello hello hello familia!!!!!! :)

can you believe it? 2 more full weeks left and then imma be home in warm az weather? oh man its kind of crazy. And whats even weirder is that there is sooooo much that is gonna happen in these last 2 weeks that it really doesn't feel like its only gonna be two weeks.

This week is my last Zone Conference. this Wednesday. I will be giving my departing testimony--my last one in front of the mission. really strange. and I will also be doing a special musical number on the flute with some other missionaries. :/ Lots happening this week.

There are so many families I have to say bye to and finding time to pack all my stuff...man there really is a lot to do!
But its all good. :) Hna Alvey and I have been seeing SUPER miracles. its been a great way to have the last 6 weeks of my mission go.

This week, we took the Bishop and his wife with us to visit the C family and man it was AWESOME. Talked a lot about getting married and doing it now so that they could be baptized and basically moved the baptism date from the 24th to the 17th. wedding the 16th and baptism the 17th. But then they didnt go get their marriage license this week :( Soooooo baptism and wedding are both back on for my last weekend in the mission. but they are literally solid. Like its what they are going to do. I think the hardest part for them is actually getting to the office to get their marriage license. but its gonna happen. i know it i know it i know it!!

Had a lesson with Irma and she told us that she can't get baptized yet--her kids are super against her becoming a member. But she still wants to learn and said that she is going to be coming to church. Her kids just really want to see the change in her before she just jumps into something. Irma has been prepared and her family is everything to her. The last thing she wants to do right now is separate them even more and so now things have just gotten a bit slower. She needs the right missionaries at the right time. But she knows she's felt different in a good way with the things shes been learning from us that she has from anything else. so poco a poco.

Lessons taught this week: 28. got like 30 more to go and that's gonna happen our last week together. we are gonna be busssssssssy bees:) We taught 6 lessons yesterday and had 3 hours of church and studies. I love being busy doing the lords work :)

I do have a feeling though that I am going to be eating more these next 2 weeks than I have my entire mission. everyone is inviting us over to eat and stuff before I go home. :) and everything important has food involved :) Love My Hispanics :)

Lessons learned this week:
You know your Mexican when you think the limones on the table are for your meat and not your water. We were invited to have dinner at a family in the english wards house this past week and so we went. Well I cannot even begin to describe how uncomfortable I felt. not because they did anything bad or rude. I just did not feel like I was at home. Like I had walked into a cocktail party dressed in holy jeans and a t-shirt. I was too scared to touch anything for fear of breaking it and I really realized that I dont know how to small talk in english anymore. I'm just. awkward. yes. super awkward. So I'm looking around for anything to make me feel somewhat at home. Well what do they decide to feed us that day? Tacos. OK well. that's all I'm gonna say about that. 

anyways so like I'm subconsciously looking around for something, anything that is gonna make me feel comfortable. And I find it. Right there on the table is a bowl of Limones. I get so excited I can barely handle it. I grab like two and start sqeezing the juice on my meat, when I notice that the limones are cut so thin that the juice is really just making a mess all over my hands. but oh well. just gotta get limon on my tacos........I look up and realize that everyone else has put the limones in their water.
who was the mexican sitting at the table? yep. it was me.

Well that's all i got for this week! Sure Love you! HAVE A FANTASTIC WEEK!

paz y amor!

Se Cuiden!

Hermana Maughan

Follow the Spirit



“Son!” “Cuz!” “Daddy!” (lumbee talk) it has been a little of a slow week this week we didn’t teach a lot but it left a lot of time for us to go out and find like on Saturday we went out trying to find people that missionaries had talked to in the past, because I really believe that there is a much better way than to just pick a street and knock those doors, In fact I wish that I didn’t have to knock doors haha but what we do is we go to a house that we have some idea who they are and then follow the spirit to know where to go and what house we should go to. we know that we are lead to an area for a reason. So we were doing this and none of the people that we had planned to talk to were home but we felt inspired to go to a few house and we were able to teach a couple! There Locklear’s (the most common last name in Pembroke) and they were really nice and it is the first time I have ever had the couple argue about Doctrine and at the same time they were both right……it was strange but we are going to go teach them next Saturday! Its exciting

            But once again the weather is strange….. some trees are already blooming so which means a lot of sneezing on by behalf haha and then its like that but yesterday morning there was frost on the ground and today its going to be in like the 70s.

            Well im really trying to think of things to write. It was a lot of biking, talking to people and work. Im really praying that i'll be able to see Pembroke grow in missionary work….. we just got a new ward missionary leader and he is actually the first missionary to go serve a mission from the Pembroke ward and know where he served? Yep Arizona…… sort of …. he served a native American mission and spent a little time in Arizona but still. He is way funny and we are all excited for the work!

            Well i'm sorry about all the yard work dad haha but to tell the truth (I most likely am going to regret this but) I miss it a little, and now i'm on mission asking everyone if a can do some sort of service for them. most of the time I ask If I can change their light bulbs for them haha
(I have only done that twice so far)
We will be raking a member’s non-member  yard and im looking forward to it but I tell you what I don’t want to use that push lawn mower that you had in Mesa. I think we should get a nice Jon Deer riding lawn mower! Those are nice or at least a self-purpled lawn mower.
everyone thinks it really funny here when I tell them that some people back home just spray paint there rocks  green back home haha.

            But I really love you all and i'm so gratefull for all that you do and I truly feel your love. I'm also excited for you all to be able to see Tim in two weeks!  I would just say one thing about that, when she gets home don’t think you’re getting the same Tim back. I'm really grateful for all your examples to me! Thanks!!!

ELDER MAUGHAN!!! 
  

He blessed me EVEN more


Helllllllllo Family!!!!! :)

Oh man how have you all been? I seriously cannot believe that another week has already gone by.  they just keep getting shorter and shorter and yet the amount of things to do is never ending :)

First off I think I should say that I.LOVE.this.work. missionary work is the bomb. Like nothing else one will ever do. BEST.THING.EVER.

I really don't feel like I only have 3 weeks left. its just like I'm going to continue doing this and its never gonna end. and I'm good with that feeling, it keeps me working :) and man oh man have we been working! My body is seriously so sore and exhausted from all this work!

This week we went on exchanges which meant I got to work with Hermana Brown for the day!!! :) And we were able to find three more new investigators! :) God is seriously just leading us to these families and I love love love love it!

And the biggest miracle that happened this week--

We had an appt with the Familia C this week and talked about baptism. We talked about the baptismal service they went to last week and they absolutely loved it. asked them how they felt and they described the spirit so perfectly. This familia is seriously super prepped! We then invited them to be baptized and they said........YES!!!! they are getting baptized the 24th of this month! the last Saturday I have in the mission! :) So we are still working out the logistics but, we will be having a wedding and a baptism all within the next 3 weeks :) if everything goes the right way! They are super excited and came to church yesterday.

The ward was seriously so awesome with that. I was feeling pretty nervous about taking them all to their classes and everything I got up and someone asked me a question I turn around to take care of the familia  and there is the primary president with the baby in her arms, the young men's president talking to the father and mother while leading them to Sunday school while some of the young woman are talking to the 13 year old Corina and taking her to young woman's. It was SUCH a cool thing to see the ward just be aware that this family was new and take care of them completely. HUGE stress was immediately taken off my shoulders. This ward is seriously the best ward ever. They love missionary work and are SUPER aware of the people around them-to make them feel comfortable and welcome in the ward family. SO AMAZING to see the gospel principles put into action in the very ward I'm working in :)

This week was also fast Sunday and not just any fast Sunday but my last one in the mission field. Boy was THAT a bunch of mixed emotions. It hit me. and hit me hard. I was the first one to get up and bear my testimony-i don't remember what I said but I do remember how I felt. There was so much that I wanted to say and didn't know how only because it was more of a feeling that I couldn't describe. I have been in this ward for 7 months now and looking around me- its my family. I've come accustomed to seeing those faces and talking to those people. they are some of my best friends. that I have to say bye to. I made it through my testimony without crying and then when I sat back down-that's when all these feelings of peace, sadness, love just all surrounded me and tears started flowing. I don't know how to describe it but the feelings I had that day were something I've never really experienced before.

My mission has been quite the journey and I've learned and become someone I never thought I would. The Hermana Maughan that will be getting off the plane in Arizona is not the same Hermana Maughan that got off the plane in Chicago. And for that I am super grateful. My mission has changed my life. for the better. WAAAAY better. I thought coming out here I was coming to repay God for all the things he had done for me, and in the end Hes blessed me EVEN more and I am even more indebted to all my Heavenly Father has given me. :)

I hope you have a great week! Love you all so much!

paz y amor,

Hermana Maughan

Family History


              Hey out there! It has been great in the land of lumbee! And you know what!? I might be a full Lumbee soon because we just had transfers calls and….. im staying in Pembroke for at least another 6 weeks! So maybe (but unlikely) ill just stay out here for the rest of my mission.

            Saturday we had our Family history work shop and it was really good. there wasn’t a lot of people but it was a start. My part turned from a 15min discussion into about 30mins….. I talked about the why and mostly the Doctrine of chirst:
Faith          
Repentance          
Baptism     
The Gift of the HolyGhost                                                 
Enduring to  The End    

the Atonement Of Jesus Christ                                                                    

 what we need to do to get back to father in heaven

            So my talk went a little like this: because of Jesus Christ and his atonement we are able to get back to the presence of father in heaven and it is only through Jesus Christ we can do this. he has commanded us to do follow the Doctrine of Christ (2 Nephi 31)
             So what about the people that have never heard the name of Christ and about his doctrine? 
then using some of the scriptures I told you last week,
everyone will have a chance in this life or the life to come but we need to find them and the way we do that is through Family History.
            That is a really, really brief version of it, but it was really good and we will be doing it again. We were even invited to go teach the young woman’s about it. The work of the lord is so great!

            We also found a few new investigators and had some really good lessons the work is picking up and i'm glad that get to see the work moving forward. I really hope that i will be here to see a few of the people I have been working with become members of the church, i'm praying J

            So as for the tornadoes we didn’t see much of them. There has been lots of rain and some high winds but no tornadoes in our area. the weather has been nice now that we got some rain, the weather dropped back to the 60s so I don’t know north Carolina weather is very strange…….

            So mom you asked about what we do on Mondays well……. Nothing really we e-mail, shop (when we have a car so every other week) then go to the church and I play ball and elder hayes writes letters.
            I have also been teaching my self to play the piano and can play songs like praise to the man, I am a child of god, elders of Israel, called to serve and to bring the world his truth. Mind you I can only do it with my right hand but I hope next week ill be able to play for priesthood meeting because we need a piano. Haha that’s what we do.

            So thank you so much for all you do and remember be nice to tim and don’t be too trunkey with her haha! 

            I love you all      [-_-] |,,|_
Have a great week!
ELDER MAUGAHAN  
                                                                             

Monday, February 27, 2012

All we do is laugh.


Hey Hey family!!!!
how are things?
things here have beeeeeeeen SUPPPPPPPPPPERRRRRRRRRRRRR Great! oh man am i excited to tell you all about this week!

what a week of miracles it has been. I am so super excited to tell you all that has happened i think im gonna just jump right on in!

Wellllllll basically my whole mission i have been praying and praying to be able to teach families. to find those families that are ready for the gospel and that want to be baptized. and so has hna alvarez. and so we have been praying for it together as well and just set goals to work as hard as we can--i really want to be able to see at least one more baptismal service before i head home. and there is seriously so much potential here that there is not reason why we shouldnt have one.

And this is what happened:

1.) Luis-who got baptized this past december-well his mom (who is less active) and her 2 sons (the younger brothers of Luis) have been coming to church for the past 3 weeks or so. finally got to set up an appt with them-we went over monday and turns out the two boys-Raul (13) and Tino(9) both want to be baptized! the lesson was awesome and their mom really opened up and told us about how she wants to be able to return to church and just what joy it has been to see luis making the right choices and being baptized and having the priesthood and prepping for a mission that it has really made her want to do the same. So we set the two boys on tenative date for the 17th of march :) Just gotta work with the step dad a bit-he is part of the reason she has become inactive. {Teaching 1 new family :) }

2.) We got a call from a family in our ward that wanted us to come with them to go see their sister who had just had surgery and start teaching her and her family because they arnt members. So we went over with them had a sweet little lesson with them-mom, dad, and 3 kids.  Going over again on tuesday---{teaching second new family}

3.) Wednesday night we get a call from Jolver (member who just moved from Arkansas) and he asked us if we could come over tuesday night at 6. told him we could. That night we pull up to the apartment and I just get this overwhelming feeling that something big was about to happen. I told Hermana Alvarez---i dont know what to expect here, but its gonna be something cool.
We knock on the door............We go inside............There sits a family of at least 12 sitting on the couch waiting for us to get there. Turns out---They had moved with Jolver here from Arkansas and they arnt members....they were prepping to be baptized and were about to get married when they had to move over here. There are 8 in that family that are over the age of being baptized. Taught a lesson on faith and got to know them a bit--told us that they would be at church on sunday! Left that appt with 8 new investigators and one BIG family!!!!! There was a child baptism on saturday and On thursday I had totally forgot to invite this family (Los Chavez) and had totally forgottten until the day of and it just kept coming to my mind that i needed to call and invite them and one thing came after another that i kept forgetting to do it---it was 3:30 when i finally listened to the prompting and called em up and invited them....baptism was at 5 and i really felt like i missed my moment of actually having them there due to the short notice i gave. So hna Alvarez and I got to the baptism and its about to start when guess who walks in?? YEP! that very family!!!!!! oh man I just can't even tell you--we seriously about had a heart attack right there me we were so excited.
             And they LOVED it. They met the bishop and his family and actually were asking the bishop about how long they had to wait before they could be baptized and that they were trying to do that in Arkansas....Hermana Alvarez went up and talked to Hermana Chavez and asked her how she liked it and she told her that she loved it and really hoped that it would be their turn soon. :) They also then showed up to church on sunday like they told us they would!!!!!!!! GOD is SO AWESOME! {teaching third new family}

4.) Friday, Luis and Analis (his cousin) came out with us to do missionary work for the day. Had 2 appts cancel on us so I looked through the area book and found a couple people that we could go and try to see if they were interested. So we went and did some knocking-Luis and Analis both did some as well. All the names i had writted down were either not living there anymore, not home, or completely not interested. I had one name left-Margarita. I had her building number but not her apt number, nor her last name. we go to the building and decide to knock the whole thing. nothing nothing nothing......until we come to the last door. we answer it and you know who it was? yep Margarita! she lets us in and we get to tknow her a bit have a quick lesson and ask her if shed be interested in having us over again and she told that she totally would! She wants her kids to be able to learn these things as well and well-she has 6 of them. 5 of which are over the age of 8. :) {Teaching fourth new family}

 We prayed for families and God led us to 4 of them! Oh man I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited. 15 new investigators this week! How amazing is that?! Just to kind of give you a view of just how amazing that is. we set monthy and weekly goals on how many new people we want to be teaching and our week goal is 4. our monthly goal for feb is 16. and we just found 15 of them in one week! :) oh man Hermana Alvarez and I are wqorking hard. And the even sweeter part of it all is that it does not feel like it. I mean dont get me wrong--my body is completely tired. we hit our pillows hard at night but like we are having so much fun along the way that it doesnt even feel like work. Ive been laughing so hard my chest and abdomen are sore.

Other cool miracle is that we put Irma back on date for the 17th of March! I think its really gonna happen. :)

Dont worry my shoes have been on the correct feet this week :) ive been doing better with my left and right. biggest problem this week has been my spanglish......Im sorry in advance for my poor language. you might not be able to make sense of what im saying :/ sorry.



Lesson learned this week: Polish Planning Sessions are the best.

I dont remember if i put this on our bucket list. But every week we have to do weekly planning and for most missionaries they hate it. Mostly because of how boring and tedious it can get. Well the ONLY reason that they hate it is cause they havent had a weekly planning session with Hermana Maughan. I love weekly planning :)

With hermana Brown we always had to do something that started with a p -like where pink, pajama party, eat pepporni pizza, or make pancakes etc etc.... well new companion, have ta change it up a bit. So how did we do that? Well every planning session we have to do something or eat something Polish. Hence we have Polish Planning Sessions.

This week we sung the Polish National Anthem and ate their favorite fast food--Popeyes Chickenskies. Oh man. Best planning session ever? Id say so.

Whats on the agenda for next week? Doing the Polka and eating Perogies, while Planning :)

Like I said-all we do is laugh.

Think thats the update for this week! I sure love you all and hope you have a fantastic week!
Se Cuiden!
Paz y Amor,
Hermana Maughan

February 27, 2012


Ugh, I just lost my contact in my eye (what a wonderful way to start of a letter haha) so that’s what is going on in my life right at this second, it reminds me of those basketball games that I lost one and then I air-balled a free throw sad game.

Yesterday was a very spiritual draining day, it was stake conference but this time it was a broadcast to all of North Carolina, South Carolina, Virginia and D.C. Elder Scott was the main speaker and he talked about the divine role of woman, and it was good. Then after we didn’t have any lessons set up and we had planned to go contact a few referrals and go see a few potential investigators. What was interesting as I was praying for the area and the people here we got a text from a member asking if we were going to go on exchanges that day, so I felt that the Lord had something planned and I started making calls and in about 8 minutes, I had set up 3 lessons for the evening. Then when our Exchange came to picked us up within 20mins, all the lessons we had arranged called and told us they could not meet…. Easy come, easy go I guess. We went to all of our old plans and there was nothing there either. I felt like I was on the spiritual roller-coaster because something wouldn’t work then I would ponder and pray for were next we needed to go and the sprit would prompt me to go and then there would be nothing and the same thing would happen again. The very last place we went to was a less active member and we hope that a lot of good things come out of it. I tell you what missionary work is draining haha.

          Um what happened this week?.... lots of biking (no tornadoes here just lots of wind and rain) Emma (the lady we are teaching:) is doing really good and is really loving it all. She came to church yesterday and would have gone to the adult sessions on Saturday evening but, she just had her 76th birthday and had a peace of her birthday cake and her blood sugar shot up to 400…. But she got better and came to church the next day which was a great blessing! We have another investigator that is just quitting smoking and then she will be ready for baptism. We are really working to find new investigators.

One thing we are doing is we are hosting a Family History work shop. I will be the opening speaker and share the reasons why the church does family history. I will be using a lot of scriptures like 1 Peter 4:6 and 1 Corinthians 15:29. We are praying that a lot of good will come out of it.  I’m really excited about it!

So that was most of my week in just a few paragraphs and you know what? I still haven’t found my contact in my eye haha.

          Well I hope you all have a great week and remember be gentle to Sister Maughan J

Take care and be safe! I love you all!

ELDER MAUGHAN