Thursday, November 10, 2011

I have never been called white man so much in my life haha it’s so crazy!

            So I have been transferred all the way down to the South Carolina line, in a little place called Pembroke….. it’s the smallest place I have ever been. The one the big thing is the University but other than that we don’t have anything besides a Wal-Mart. I mean we even have a PO box  which reminds me if anyone wants to send me Christmas mail (wink wink haha) you’ll need to send it to my address which is:

985 Old Mail Road
PO Box 3125
Pembroke, NC 28372

            Now there is a small chance that I will be transferred  and I will find out on December the 9th so if I do then my address will change…. But I don’t think that will happen… or at least I hope not.
            So a little more about Pembroke; about 95% of the people here are Native American from the Lumbe Tribe. It’s not a reservation but I tell you it's really close. There are stray dogs everywhere. At church I was the one white person…. That was really different as even my companion is a Native American from Nevada (his name is Elder Yankton) and I tell you what I have never been called white man so much in my life haha it’s so crazy! But its great here, there is about 3 young men that are about to go on missions and another one who just got back and we have some great investigators. One lady named Ann is progressing great! She hasn’t smoked for about a week and is reading and praying every day! Also her husband just got into town yesterday and he wants to learn, and then her 5 kids are coming Thursday, she just found a job and she has a lot of friends at church! So the work is going forth!
            O another funny thing is that we live in a trailer right behind the church (like in order to get there you have to drive through the church parking lot) and then our Neighbors are some Horses and the college football field,  where they practice all the time. On Saturday they had a game and where they just blare the music so it was way funny when I first heard the game going on. The members have been really nice. The funny thing here is that they have the same last name out of about 4 names, one big one is Locklear so that makes its easy to remember people’s names but then everyone goes by their first names here so that makes it a little harder... haha but its been a lot of fun.
            So it kind of hit me last week that in less than a month I will have been out on my mission a year and a half….. because Elder Yankton came out with me and then with this member Elder coming home from his mission everyone here is telling me that the last 6 months fly by. Then I thought of Timothie and then it hit me if I was a sister missionary I would be going home. Then we were at a members home who just moved from Arizona about a year ago so half way through dinner as we were talking it came out that I had been out of Arizona longer then had….. but it really doesn’t feel like it and it’s not bothering me. I just was just thinking it was way funny so I thought I would share it.   
            Well I love you all so much and I'm so grateful to be out here in the South and thank you all for then many things that you do!
LOVE, ELDER MAUGHAN!      [~_~]  _|,,|         

Baptism with Maria and Hugo


!Familia!
que tal? como han estado?
        Well what a great week for us! Man :) Missionary work is seriously the best thing ever!!!!!!!!
So first let me tell you about the baptism with Maria and Hugo.............if you don't know already with baptisms something always always always always goes wrong. or tries to. Satan tires his very very best to keep it from happening...and this time i thought that it was going to be a pretty calm baptism with no major problems seeing how the biggest one they actually overcame and that was setting a date to be baptized....
       Well it was planned for saturday night right? Church was all scheduled because there was nothing reserved on the calendar for the church. no problem right? wrong.
Then on Thursday night at 8:30 we received a call from our bishop informing us that he just found out that there was going to be a stake youth activity at our church building and it started at the exact time that the baptism was scheduled. meh....that was a fun 2 hours trying to call and figure out what we could do instead. because hugo works until 5 and he would already be coming straight from work to get to the baptism on time at 6  they told us they couldnt do it friday, so we were pretty much stumped and at the point of tears not knowing what to do, and then our bishop because he is just so awesome called our investigators and idk what he said to them but they then called us and said that they would get baptized on Friday. 5 days from when they set their date they were baptized! and let me tell you what a baptism! man it was pretty amazing. the spirit was strong there and they will definately be life time members. Bishop was supposed to give the last talk on the Holy Ghost and he was stuck in traffic and president doll ended up giving the talk :) thanks to him I didn't have to do it. I have never seen them that happy before.
       We have Karla and Carlos Jr. getting baptized by their father Carlos this saturday! :) they have their entrevistas tonight and it will also be an awesome baptism.
As for sad news: Jorge who was going to be baptized on the 12th of this month~texted us the other day and told us that he didn't want to listen to us anymore because, he didn't like having his wife mad at him all the time for becoming mormon. We immediatly went over to his house and talked to him and tried to see if we could set up a time to talk to him and his wife, but he wouldn't do it, so I'm really wondering if he's using it as a pretexto (idk what that is in english sorry) but like its kind of like a cover for whats really going on. I prayed and prayed about it and really felt this peace which was a but weird for me to be at peace with the fact that he doesn't want us to teach him anymore. but I trust those feelings and somehow know that its all going to be ok.
       Halloween was cool. my costume was fun :) and we played a rouling game of monopoly electronic banking. it was fun. then today for pday we are going to go fly kites with president doll and our zone.  It's pretty cold and windy outside...winter is coming and we were told that we should be getting snow today or tomorrow :( meh. no thank you.
       I've been doing this new cool thing where I'm really trying to focus on how sincere my prayers are and how strong my converations with my Heavenly Father are, and so I've been having a pen and paper by me when I pray. I'm giving God time to talk to me and listen for the answers to my questions and then writing it down. and it's been pretty amazing at the miracles I have seen from it. So you should definately try it and then write me a letter telling me all about it! :)

 I love you all and hope you had a great halloween and that youll have a great week!
paz y amor,
Hermana Maughan

That’s the best way to leave an area

                 Happy Halloween! Well this week has been great! Yesterday William was baptized! and he had asked me to baptize him and that’s the best way to leave an area…. Yep that’s right im getting transferred…… sad day, Sunday was really hard because everyone was there and I had to say good bye. I have really loved it here, and I know that the next place will be even better!  but the Lord has just been so good to me here! Rocky Mount is a wonderful place and the people are even better, but now I'm off to meet new people.  Something that stinks is that next week rocky mount will be having another baptism…. Well that part doesn’t stink but the part that does is that I will not be here……
                 Yesterday was a great. The spirit was so strong.  William's girlfriend flew in from Utah for the baptism and the spirit was so strong! Then later that night we went over to Shirley’s and Charity’s house with Nate and another member... so I had dinner with 3 people that I was really able to help and I tell you what I all most cried a few times that day haha but a lot of other people did….. sad, sad so we will have to come back to this little place after the mission!
                 The Lord has been such a help to me and you know what after this weekend I cannot remember what happened the rest of the week….. o ya we had our Halloween party and it was fun, there wasn’t any games, just food and then trunk or treating.  This year we handed out candy and it was a lot of fun….. Because I was giving to my family…. For a little there were 3 Elder Maughans but because there were so many non-members there the other two gave me back my name tags but I stayed as Elder Maughan from the Calgary Canada mission. It that was fun.
                Well I have got to go there is a lot of packing to do……
 I hope your all doing good. Have a great Halloween tonight I love you all! Be safe and take care
Love,
ELDER MAUGHAN 

Miracle Week

Hey there my loving family!!!
        So man oh man what an awesome week it has been! :) ok Im going to sound like a cheesy missionary right now but I dont care cause its all true! Because seriously the Lord is blessing me with being able to be the witness of so many miracles and to be able to see the change in people take place from the inside out. We are teaching so many very prepared people and I just can not explain how blessed I really do feel. I can testify that I do know there is a God and that he is extremely loving. That he does care and loves every single one of us tremendously and wants us to learn and be blessed and come to know him. How do I know this?...I not only know it because I have seen the change and the Lords hand in not only preparing but helping people hearts be softend to come unto the fold of christ but also because the Lord has had his hands in my life, prepping, guiding, and placing people in my path to help me be the person and reach the potential that God knew I could. Without him and his hand I would not be here on my mission, I would not have been able to witness the miracles that I have and I would not have this burning in my heart to share it with everyone. God loves us! He loves me. isnt that so awesome? he literally is our Father and just like my earthly father he wants the best for me and he wants me to be able to grow and feel his love. and I have! oh man have I ever. Every fiber in my being knows this and i cannot deny it.

With that being said let me tell you all the AMAZING miracles that have happened here in North Aurora this week! :)
       Well first one being we were blessed to have 7 member present lessons! We have been working alot with the part member/less active/recent converts in our ward and it really is working. All of the investigators we have on date except 1 is from part member families. and as such the recent convert lessons are now turning into member present lessons :) isnt that so awesome?! we are so excited.
       This Sunday was also invitation Sunday where the services are basically focused for the nonmembers and the investigators. Every topic in every class focuses the basic beliefs of our church. The members invite their friends and family to come check us out. It's like an open house and we have it twice a year. So what we also take them on a tour of the church building to the different classes-primary, releif society, sacrament, young men /young women etc and explain what happens in the classes and show how the family is central to our iglesia.
       We had very good potential investigators come out of it.... There is this woman named Nury and she has served many missions for her church and has quite the stories to tell she has heard of mormons before and would like to learn more. so we will be setting up an appointment to see her this week.
       Well I dont remember if I have told you about Maria and Hugo? But they are what are known as eternigators....they have been investigating the church for an eternity and will not take the step to be baptized. They are more active than the active members. They have all the church books including preach my gospel and have been helping teach the new member lessons and participating in every activity that they can. They even went out and bought their 5 year old son a suit so he could wear it to church. and yet they will not take the step to be baptized. When I first got to the area Hermana Noyes told me about them and how they had to stop teaching them because they just were not progressing anymore and the last week that we had together I had the feeling that we needed to go see them. So we set up and appt and I had in my mind ok, this is going to happen, they will have a baptism date and they are going to know they are ready. If you know Hermana Noyes and Hermana Romney they are really nice and sweet girls and so I had just figured that they just hadn't been bold enough with this family and I have not one problem with being bold...so thats how I was in the appt and still nothing. Tried to set them for the next saturday and they said that was too soon and that they wanted the decision to be their own and that they needed to study more and find out if that was what they really needed to do. So we commited them to fasting and praying about taking the decision for a specific date and that we would be fasting and praying with them. Well we went and saw them and they still said that they had yet to recieve an answer, so we focused our lesson on the Book of Mormon due to the fact that they hadn't really been reading it. and that all of their silly dudas all come down to knowing if the book of mormon is the word of God. so we have been visiting them like about every other week since they arnt really progressing. so we went back to their house this monday with the lesson of teaching enduring to the end because we both really felt like the reason they hadn't gotten baptized yet is because they are scared of whats gonna happen after they get baptized, that they will fall away and that bad things will happen. When we went and found out that they had both started the BoM over from the beginning and were already in the book of Mosiah. (in 2 weeks) and had a really good lesson with some awesome spirit guided questions but still being the stubborn eternigators that they were would not say that they would be baptized. We ended the lesson with telling them how much we loved them and that the reason why they may feel we are being so bold about all of this is because we love them and we want them to have the blessings that God is waiting to give them...and then Hermana Brown asked to say the closing prayer and I asked if we could kneel and so we did and oh man I have never prayed so hard and fervently that their hearts would be softened in the prayer that Hermana Brown was giving. We got up and were saying our goodbyes when Maria says "I want to be baptized." I turned to her and I think my mouth must have hit the floor because it took me a while to pick it back up again as I asked "seriously?" and she began to cry and said " I need to be baptized. I know I need to. I can feel it." We then said well Maria we could have the baptism this Saturday if you would like and she said. "yes. I want to be baptized." so we sat back down and began to plan her program in all of this. Meanwhile Hugo is not saying anything and is sitting with his arms folded. and we got all of her prgram figured out except for the closing prayer and she asked her husband if he would give it and he turns to her and us and says "well I want to be baptized too eh!" so they have their interviews tonight. and isnt God interesting? Something came up with Carlos and Karla that they couldnt be baptized this week to make it available for Maria and Hugo to be baptized! man I dont even have words to express how happy and excited and blessed I feel to be able to  be able to be a witness to all of this!

Lesson learned this week:
White is a color not welcome color....when dealing with hair. Yes. yesterday I found my first white hair. but it was not a head hair...but a white EYEBROW hair. what the?! So that hair has made it into my journal now...i still cannot believe it. Who gets a white eyebrow hair when their only 22 years old?
       Some of my favorite missionaries are now home this week :( The Becks have finished their mission and are now back in Utah. They were such great examples to me and helped me really feel like I had family here in Chicago. but they are going to just jump back into the swing of things there in Utah and I wish them the best!

Thanks so much for all your love and support. Sure miss you guys! Have a great week!
much paz y amor,
Hermana Maughan

This work is so great and the lord is really helping out!


Hi!
       Sorry I'm a day late with my letter, Elder Brockbank got sick yesterday and we were not able to go anywhere. This is going to be a buzz kill letter today.... there are only 3 computers in the Family History Center and I waited for everyone else to go first so I don't really have any time since as we have a lesson with a part member soon.
       It was a great week! On Sunday we had 6 non-members at church and Nat was confirmed, and with all the non-members we where able to talk to a lot of them and things are looking really good; William is getting baptized this Sunday and he has asked me to baptize him! yay i love missionary work!!
      We have been doing a lot of work with the less active memebers. I feel like I almost know everyone in Rocky Mount now, like we found a less active member that cuts hair and so last night we went and got our hair cut. We were able to invited him and all his family to the Halloween party this week..... (yes I let some one else cut my hair... haha )
      This work is so great and I can feel the Lord is really helping us out. We taught this young man named Vance and he is getting baptized in two weeks. He went to BYU Virginia for two years, then came here and wants to join the church :) Another thing this week was one of the other non-members that came to church was Williams friend, (this is the second friend that William has invited him to Church and take the lessons!) When I first got here there was this core group of members that were doing all the missionary work but now the fire of missionary work is spreading and it feels like the Lord is blessing the ward so much. O how the Lord loves his children.
     I hope you all have a great Halloween and enjoy all that candy! haha I love all so much and thanks for all that you do!

ELDER MAUGHAN


Thursday, October 20, 2011

It is always good to be prepared!


Hey family!

Man I feel like I have so many cool things to tell you this week and I don't even know where to begin! I think I'm gonna start off with...........
Miracles of the week:
1. We now have 5 people on date to be baptized! man it is just so cool! We had to move victors baptism because he has been working on Sundays so hes finally going to be coming to church this Sunday but Karla and Carlos Jr are still on track for the 29th. then we have Jorge on date for the 5th of November, Soltero and Victor for the 19th

2. We had a lesson with Jorge on Friday and we had two fairly recent converts come with us Silvia and Miguel. And we felt like we needed to address the word of wisdom because well Jorge loves his tequila and his coffee. and let me tell you it was one of the most awesome word of wisdom lessons that I have ever been a part of. Jorge was kind of debating with us that he wouldn't be able to give up his coffee and he didn't understand why we couldn't and Miguel then bore a really powerful testimony and shared his experience with living the word of wisdom because turns out that was something that was really hard for him but that completely changed his life around and then Silvia she then asked Jorge...."Jorge I don't know much about this kind of stuff but don't you have diabetes?" and I had totally forgotten that he did. so he said yes....and she goes "and a lot of sugar is bad for you isn't it?" and he says yes....and then she said "well I would imagine that coffee cant be good for you either than because it has so much sugar in it." and let me tell you I have never seen Jorge speechless before but he knew she was right. So then I felt the spirit so strong and promised him the blessing that if he obeyed the word of wisdom gave up his coffee and his tequila that he wouldn't have a much problems with his diabetes. so then i called him Monday to see how he was doing and you know what he told me? that since our lesson he hasn't drank one cup of coffee or tequila since! and that he hasn't even had any desire to or like withdrawals or nothin. so sweet!

3. We are teaching this AWESOME Hermana named Cruz and she is a single mom with 3 kids ages 11, 9 and 7 (turning 8 on the 29th of Nov) and her mom is recent convert and she has really seen the change in her mom since she became a member but she has been so busy with work and just really hasn't had quite the desire to listen until now. I can honestly say that i feel like I am here on a mission for Cruz. I mean from the first day I met her we just clicked and since she has been having such a desire to get her priorities straight and I cannot even tell you how strong the spirit is when we are there. And we are actually getting to the point that we are having awesome lessons with her. which is a miracle if you were to read her teaching record. So on Thursday we had a lesson with her on repentance and boy oh boy was it awesome. she just really opened up and gave her the commitment to repent and left her with a BOM and the story in Mosiah about Alma the younger and the sons of mosiah and we left but then (she has a younger brother who's 20 and his name is junior and hes a partier...drinker, smoker, living the life as the world would say) on Friday the next day she was reading the chapter and then later that night her brother who usually isn't over and usually doesn't stay the night came over and Cruz got him to spend the night so they were sleeping and Cruz woke up at 4am cause she heard junior grunting and stuff. well turns out hes having seizure. and he was biting on his tongue like crazy hard and Cruz didn't know what to do--she called 911 and then to keep junior from biting off his tongue she grabbed the first thing she saw (the book of Mormon) and shoved it in his mouth. and well everything worked out really really well. hes totally fine but they are just trying to figure out whats going on with him since this is the second one he's had. but we saw him on Friday after he got back from the hospital and he told us that hes done with the smoking and the drinking and that hes trying to get Sundays off of work so that he can come to church with Cruz and her kids.
And then! we had a lesson with her 3 kids and her 3 kids were talking about baptism and faith and they all want to get baptized on the same day and they want their mom to too...so we told Cruz this and she sad "oh really? hmm. OK." not one no popped out her mouth. so Cruz will be getting baptized. we don't have a date and we haven't invited her yet but she will be getting baptized i can just feel it.
4. So Idk if you remember the ice cream truck story? about the man we saw like 3 times in one day and finally contacted him and got his information? this was back in September when i first got the area with Hermana Noyes...well so we have been trying to get a hold of him and he told us that he was just trying to work and work till the summer ended cause his job was kind of a temporary one...so we left him alone and then the second day with Hermana Brown all our plans had cancelled for the night and i was at a loss for what to do...so looked in the back of my planner and saw his name and i thought hey! ill try giving him a call. So I called him and he answered and asked if we could meet that night! so we did and had a really awesome little lesson with him and then Hermana Brown gave him a soft invitation and asked him if when he knew these things where true if he would be baptized and he said yes! so we have another lesson with him tomorrow! :) I'm really excited to see where it goes!
5. We went over to the Bishops house last night to talk about invitation Sunday coming up and all the things we need to do to prepare for it and then I just had this feeling that I needed to share with him and his family all the things I had learned from our Zone Conference and all the miracles of the things that were happening in our area and then when we were about to leave I told them that we were going to another appt. with Karla and Carlos Jr and they were so excited and pumped that I invited them to come with us and they were so excited to come they hopped in their car and we were off! had a really awesome family home evening member present type of lesson with the Carlos and all his kids and Victor on the plan of salvation.

Seriously this ward, this area are the best i have ever been in. they are so excited to help and love love love missionary work!
Basicamente it twas a pretty sweet week filled with miracles! :)

As for lesson learned this week:
Biggest one: it is always good to be prepared. So this week was the mission tour where we had the member of the 70 and his wife come and tour our mission. Elder and Sister Ellis. and So the divided our mission in half and had half on Tuesday for a conference and half on Wednesday for the conference and our half ended up having more missionaries in it..but usually for zone conferences that we have once every other month~ President Doll gives us a topic to study and usually its like a scripture or something like that and then we have to prepare to share our thoughts on it for 3-5 minutes but none of us know who is speaking until that day at that very minute. they just call you up to the front and ask you to share your thoughts on it....and usually we have a week to prepare but this time we had 2 days...the topic: the Definition of Faith in the Bible Dictionary and then an example from the BOM to go along with it. Ive been lucky enough to slide by all the zone conferences thus far in my mission without having to speak....and as we were driving to the stake center for our meeting i was rewriting my prepared thoughts into my notes journal so that it would be all together instead of all over the place like it was...and as i was copying it over about half way through i had the overwhelming feeling come over me and i said out loud in the car "oh boy i just got really nervous." but i shook off the feeling and we got to the stake center...we were all sitting in our seats and usually we have the 5 minute talks at the end of the zone conference but this time BIG surprise it was first! and so Elder Littledike the assistant who was conducting the meeting gets up and says "welcome everyone to zone conference today wed like to recognize elder and sister Ellis here from the 70 and we will be singing hymn number sdfkjdfksd and the opening prayer with be given by sister dfksdfhdsfh then we will be having our 5 minute talks and we will be pleased to hear from Hermana Maughan and Elder dfkhsdgkhds. dfklfisdrhklsdfjklsdfkjsd sdfsdfhksdfyhsdapsdfkhsdf.....i don't really remember what was said after that i was sitting there in nervous shock and ultimate gratitude that I had prepared something. So I gave up and shared my thoughts on faith...how faith is a principle of action and power. that it is when we make faith a verb instead of a noun that we will have a stronger relationship with God and he will endow us with power to do his will. and shared how we need to EXERCISE and use our faith and that in turn we are given more faith and more power from God which is the best kind of power to be given. So I can now say that a member of the 70 has heard me speak and over half of the mission....lesson in all of this:
BE PREPARED! hahaha
oh and mom to answer your questions:
my favorite thing about serving a mission? That would definitely be being able to see the change take place in peoples lives as they come to know who Christ is and what they need to do repent and come unto him.
Did I get my package? Yes. and it was right in time. I had actually pretty sure I had strep throat.. I was losing my voice and had white bumps on the back of my throat. couldn't really eat or swallow very well and got the package with the oils in and i know that the combination of the oils and the priesthood I'm back to 100 percent! :) So thank you so much and the costume stuff is perfect! :) thanks so much!
Did I get the letter? sure did and you should be getting one back to you! :)
So what is the greatest lesson you feel you have been taught as you serve? Well I think that one of them has been how the spirit speaks to me. That i have come to recognize --don't get me wrong I'm still learning--but it is getting easier for me to discern if it is my thoughts or the spirit telling me what to do. another thing is the importance of temple marriage and family and the things i know i need to find and the things i definitely don't need in my relationship with my companion...along with that learning when to pick your battles. as silly as it may seem it is something that has really changed my relationships with my companions and has made it so much for the better...learning not to sweat the small stuff. to breathe and let it go and life is so much the smoother and happier and another thing is to not let moments pass you by. The importance of living with future goals but living in the moment and enjoying life while your in it.
Well that's all for this week! I sure love you all! have a great week!!!!
paz y amor Hermana Maughan

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

The greatest lesson

It has been a very spiritual week first we got to go to the temple on Friday then this Sunday was stake conference with a member of the 70 (and I’m in the same stake that I was in when I first got here so I was able to see a lot of people from my old ward family) then yesterday we had a mission tour where a different member of the 70 came. Elder Jenson of the 70 was great, he talked about faith and things our mission can do better. The sprit has been so strong and I have been able to gain a lot of spiritual insights for myself and those I serve. I’m just so grateful to be on a mission it has really blessed my life so much! And one of the things that hit me really hard is the fact that I truly love these people! North Carolina is truly one of the greatest places in the world, I’m so grateful that I have only served in 3 areas so that I have been able to really get to know the members and they have become a part of my family. I love them….. I think it’s so great that the Lord has sent me here, out of anywhere in the world he sent me here because he knew it was what I needed. The thought that I could get transferred in two weeks is so heart wrenching, I don’t want to leave my family here even with the thought that I will make more family some other place. I would have never thought I would feel this way with strangers in a very, very strange place but here I am enjoying it all!  Heavenly Father truly knows his children…… isn’t it wonderful?!?!
            The Lord has just been great to us and I’m looking forward to Nate being confirmed next week and then the week after that is Williams’s baptism! So it has been wonderful! Thank you all so much for all you do! I love you all! And I hope you have a great week!
ELDER MAUGHAN!!             
(Answers to question)
My favorite thing about serving is the spirit that comes seeing others repent and making new family members
I am still eating a good amount this Sunday we had chicken, ham, roll, corn and green beans and lots of good southern food like that.
Next training well we have interviews the 3rd of next month. The other missionaries are going home in two weeks and I don’t know about any more I think that there is enough work here for 4 Elders
My suits are good and my shirts are good and to be honest I have had to do a lot of mending on my mission but I’m doing fine I bought my self some new socks the other week with my home card so things are going good. The purple runners are great! They are the best shoes I have ever had in my life

I have not gotten my package yet :(   

The greatest lesson..... How to love people and act on what the spirit tells me to do